tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post2608482541232863208..comments2023-04-29T00:47:09.698-07:00Comments on My Little Valley of Tears: Better things are comingPearlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02557128777623361772noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post-76537496259209886542012-01-05T13:39:37.408-08:002012-01-05T13:39:37.408-08:00How perfect. You're right - even when they...How perfect. You're right - even when they're hurting us, we know they're (usually) trying to help.<br /><br />I do feel though that people won't know what to say, unless we help them. Struggling with the balance though - when to tell them, when just to smile thanks - is the tough bit.Malihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03928262526502319303noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post-74274337614700528722012-01-04T15:29:45.501-08:002012-01-04T15:29:45.501-08:00you are right on!! and what a great positive atti...you are right on!! and what a great positive attitude you have :) (you are a better person than me I would be giving them the finger as they walked away, lol , just kidding )Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post-51382352408235931762012-01-04T06:29:15.975-08:002012-01-04T06:29:15.975-08:00I think people mean so well, but just have no idea...I think people mean so well, but just have no idea what their words sound like to us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post-15228873597880724112012-01-04T04:47:29.917-08:002012-01-04T04:47:29.917-08:00great suggestion, I think people do mean well but ...great suggestion, I think people do mean well but so so misguidedcdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1915714703614851938.post-8526889130398944792012-01-04T03:09:35.929-08:002012-01-04T03:09:35.929-08:00I think the phrase "it's God's will&q...I think the phrase "it's God's will" in relation to a miscarriage was one of the most angering things I heard, but like you say the intention is normally good. People just want to try and say something so they end up saying something stupid, I have probably said stupid things before too. I now stick to I'm so sorry, because I know nothing I say can make it better, only worse.Bernardeenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00457077164253960792noreply@blogger.com