"People who have information about an individual case rarely feel the need to know the statistics of the class to which the case belongs". ~Daniel Kahneman
And so I get to hear about so-and-so who gave up on trying to get pregnant, but got pregnant anyway later on. I am very tired of this story. This has happened to many infertile couples, but I am pretty sure that there's plenty of couples who never made it. It's just that nobody talks about them.
Too bad that just a few days ago I promised not to get mad at people who blab some nonsense trying to make me feel better. How does someone else's unintended success is supposed to make me feel better about my own failure after six years of trying?
Oh, right. I am not supposed to lose hope. Yeah, got it.
But you know what? Maybe it's time to move on and hope for something different.