Sunday, February 6, 2011


T's IVF failed. She's heartbroken and so are all of us, her friends from afar. I cannot imagine a better set of parents, and yet it is just not happening for them, in spite of all the money, effort, tears and indignities that the procedure entails. Some of you know more about it than I do.

I already sent her an email, but I feel I should call her tonight. What can I possibly tell her? I know nothing I say will cheer her up. The best I can hope for is not say anything stupid that will upset her.

1 comment:

  1. I hate to hear of another good couple getting negatives! I think the best comments I heard after our failed cycles was just simply I am sorry and them letting me know they were there whether to listen, scream, or cry...